Here’s something for you to ponder:
What you want will always come about as long as you don’t think about a Blue Tree.
I’d bet you just thought about a Blue Tree.
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Consider that next time you say to yourself “I don’t want X”, where X is something you really don’t want.
You can’t “not want” something and not think about it.
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The alternative is to always think about what you want.
Try paying less attention to Your Reality and more attention to Your Imagination.